As the main provider for your family, you willingly offered a lifestyle. At no point did you ever think one would suggest they have a “right” to maintain that standard of living. The obligation you shouldered pre-divorce tied more to the dreams you wanted for your united family. Now that the separation is here, there is a shift in this obligation. Instead of the welcoming the free will to provide, you find yourself stuck as you lose this free-will and shoulder entitlement. In this episode, I share how to reverse the paralyzing negativity of this new form of obligation.